with Daniel Mirea, MSc, BABCP Acc
How to help the perfectionist client…
How to break the cycle of ‘when is perfect, perfect enough?
Perfectionism is not about excellence or healthy development but a rather sophisticated cognitive and behavioural mechanism (including a series of false autosuggestions) that internally sounds something like this: ‘if I deliver at 100% all the time and if I look perfect all the time and if I achieve 100% academically all the time, I shall no longer feel ashamed, embarrassed and will no longer be judged for underperforming – everyone will love and accept me then’.
Striving for a specific ‘reward’, whether material, professional or academic success, is wired into our neurological system and can be healthy for both the mind and body. However when suffering from low mood and low self-esteem, perfectionism is usually turned into an unhealthy obsession by constantly shifting the goal posts or aiming for unrealistic or even impossible standards.
According to Roz Shafran (2002) “the overdependence of self-evaluation on the determined pursuit (and achievement) of self-imposed, personally demanding standards of performance in at least one salient domain, despite the occurrence of adverse consequences” explains the mechanism behind perfectionism.
This obsessive drive forward is often misread by significant others (for example immediate family) as ambition. There is a threshold nonetheless, observable to the trained eye, by the experienced clinician who understands the difference between pathological tendencies that reinforce an anxiety or a depressive disorder and a healthy motivation to achieve.
What this workshop will do for you:
The training covers a wide range of CBT topics from introductory through to advanced. The combination of lecture, case studies (video/ audio analysis) and role plays significantly develops skills and knowledge of CBT techniques and provides an effective and cost efficient investment in your professional development.
This training will provide a CPD Certificate of 6 hours (signed by both a senior BABCP accredited psychotherapist and lecturer and the principal of the college).
Learning objectives for the CBT for Perfectionism Workshop:
Concepts, Understanding & Recognition
- A clear description of pathological (or clinical / unhealthy / dysfunctional)
‘perfectionism’ and a deeper understanding of a term
that people commonly use to the extent that it has
now been normalized. It has become part of our
usual and every day vocabulary.
- How clinical (unhealthy) perfectionism manifest itself.
- How to recognise it in the therapy room
- Understanding mechanisms involved in the
maintenance of perfectionism.
- Understanding what other disorders are associated with clinical perfectionism (e.g. other anxiety
and depressive disorders) – and how they interact with it.
Treatment Design and Elements, Specific Interventions
- Introducing and socialising clients to the CBT model,
- Psychological education – about CBT and specifically perfectionism maintaining factors in CBT
- Modifying and challenging dysfunctional assumptions,
- Problem solving and setting realistic goals.
- The creative use of behavioural and social experiments as well as imagery work
- How to integrate different skills used in the treatment of depressive and anxiety disorders.
- The integration and use of hypnosis and negative self-hypnosis (negative autosuggestion model) into the CBT model
- The use of other more recent CBT approaches also know as third wave therapies such as mindfulness and acceptance, imagery, and relaxation.
About Daniel Mirea
Daniel Mirea is a BABCP Accredited Senior Psychotherapist and lecturer who trained in all aspects of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (including traditional “Beckian” CBT as well as 3rd wave and integrative approaches like Mindfulness, Hypno-CBT®, ACT and EMDR) with a career of more than 25 years in the mental health field. He is an accredited practitioner with both BABCP and UKCP, a fellow alumnus of King’s College and a senior associate at The Royal Medical Society. He is a director of a private mental heath services provider and also manages his own private practice; Daniel is an experienced consultant clinical supervisor within the South-East London trust and a CBT course leader with NSPC – Midddlesex University and Regents University. He has a particular interest in integrating hypnosis with CBT in the context of trans-diagnostic approaches.
Read more about Daniel here.
We’ve arranged for Daniel to offer a series of workshops in 2016 which build upon the basic knowledge of CBT that is acquired during our Diploma training course.
Location: The Clayton Crown Hotel, Cricklewood, London NW2
Terms & Conditions
All cancellations must be received in writing.
Deposits (or deposit equivalent fees) are non-refundable. Payment in full includes a deposit equivalent fee of £175 for single courses and £450 for the diploma (or £290 deposit for the Diploma 12 month payment plan).
The following cancellation fees apply to course cancellation, received in writing:
- Less than seven days before the course starts: full payment of the course is due. No refund is given for fees paid.
- Seven to 14 days before the course starts: 50% of the course fees will be due.
- More than 14 days before the course starts: full refund (less the non-refundable deposit) will be made.
Workshop fees are non-refundable and non-transferable.
If the course is cancelled by the College, we will refund all fees paid but will not be liable for any additional or related costs incurred by students.
Non-attendance of a course or workshop is considered as a cancellation with no notice and hence full course fees are due and no refund given.
Acceptance onto the course and ongoing attendance of each stage of the course is at the discretion of the College.
Course Transfer Fees:
Once your deposit is made you are registered with your chosen dates for each stage. Each course date can be transferred to a future date with a fee of £175 per course with notice more than 14 days before the course commends and a fee of £300 per course with less than 14 days notice.
Our Course Satisfaction Guarantee:
If you decide at any point during the first 48 hours that the course is not suitable for you, then we will refund the full amount paid for the course less £200 (£175 deposit plus a small administrative fee).
Students are responsible for notifying us of any mental or physical health problems that might affect their ability to participate on the course. This course may not be suitable for people with a history of psychotic disorders or other psychiatric conditions.